Life Skills/Pressing Issues
All in Good Order
Some people are naturally more organized than others, but anyone can learn organizational
skills. Becoming and staying organized can help students perform better at school while reducing stress. This
is a great opportunity for students to think about the benefits of becoming and staying organized as they begin
the new school year.
Key Ideas: Benefits of staying organized - Organizational skills - Reducing stress
Character Traits: Respect - Responsibility
At the Core
Roy Disney, nephew of Walt Disney, once said that "It's not hard to make decisions
when you know what your values are." Students explore the notion that deciding which core values will guide them
through life is one of the most important decisions they will ever make.
Key Ideas: Making choices is easier when you know what your values are - Determining one's core ethical values
Character Traits: Integrity - Respect - Responsibility - Caring
Students will take a look at ambition and consider the ways that it can help them
reach their goals as well as the idea that there are good and bad ways to express ambition.
Key Ideas: Ambition - Helping others
Character Traits: Responsibility - Perseverance
Be True to Yourself
It takes moral courage for students to stay true to themselves by not participating
in activities that go against their personal values, especially when they are afraid of being ridiculed or rejected. Being
true to themselves is much easier when they know who they are and what they stand for.
Key Ideas: Doing what's right is easier when we know what we stand for
Character Traits: Moral courage - Self-awareness - Integrity
Catching a Thief
In 2010, the Josephson Institute conducted a survey of nearly 40,000 American high school
students. Almost 28% of all the students surveyed admitted that they had stolen something from a store within the previous
year. Students will examine the costs to themselves and others when they choose to steal and explore the concept
of good character as a valuable asset to possess.
Key Ideas: The implications of stealing - Good character is a valuable asset to possess
Character Traits: Honesty - Integrity - Dignity
Cheating in school or other activities is never honorable. By choosing to be an honorable person,
the decision has already been made not to cheat. Students who choose to cheat may find it easy at first but there
are short- and long-term negative consequences if they are caught. Students will consider these consequences and the
loss of self-respect whether they are caught or not.
Key Ideas: Choosing not to cheat - Being honorable
Character Traits: Honesty - Integrity
Did You Do That On Purpose?
* Life can be so random at times. It can be confusing and challenging. For
life to make sense, it has to have meaning. It has to have purpose, and having purpose in our lives is something we
choose because when we do anything on purpose, we do it deliberately. Students explore the importance of choosing
a worthy purpose in their lives.
Key Ideas: Making good choices - Goal setting
Character Traits: Respect - Responsibility
Note: This message and lesson plan also work well for Be On Purpose Month: January.
Directing Your Own Life
Every time students act responsibly, they earn more trust. With that trust usually comes more
freedom to choose. Being trustworthy can mean making some tough short-term choices, but long-term, it can mean having
greater control over one's future. Students explore the idea that the benefits of making responsible decisions far
outweigh the costs.
Key Ideas: Taking responsibility for one's choices and actions - Directing one's life story - Goalsetting
Character Traits: Responsibility - Respect - Self-management
Don't Be Late
For the most part, whether we ourselves are punctual or not, we expect others to be
punctual. We expect movies to begin at showtime, and ambulances to arrive promptly. Students explore the
notion that being tardy or late not only is discourteous but can have serious consequences for ourselves and others.
Key Ideas: Punctuality - Tardiness
Character Traits: Responsibility - Punctuality - Courtesy - Respect
Some of the "luckiest" people you will ever meet are not lucky at all. They simply
set goals, work hard, and reap the natural consequences of all their effort. Students consider the idea that they
can make the decision to work hard to reach their goals rather than counting on luck.
Key Ideas: Work ethic - Luck versus hard work - Hard work and success
Character Traits: Responsibility - Diligence
Here Comes Tomorrow
Students are often tempted to put things off until tomorrow, but moving their
responsibilities forward does not make them go away. In fact, it can make them seem bigger and more stressful. In
this plan, students consider the negative consequences of procrastination and explore tools and strategies for staying
on top of things.
Key Ideas: Procrastination - Tools for overcoming procrastination
Character Traits: Self-management - Responsibility - Self-esteem
Each time students are faced with a choice between doing what they know is right and doing
what is wrong, they have the opportunity to choose a life of integrity and to enjoy the riches that come with such a life.
Key Idea: Being brave enough to say no to what is wrong
Character Traits: Integrity - Honesty - Moral courage
Living an Ethical Life
We aren't born knowing how to live an ethical life. It's a skill we develop
and then it's a choice we make. Making ethical choices means taking the time to think through the values we believe are
important. When we do this in advance, we are better equipped to make the right choices. Students will explore the costs
and the benefits of living an ethical life.
Key Ideas: Ethical literacy - Doing the right thing - Consequences of unethical living - Choices
Character Trait: Integrity
We all want to have nice things, and many of us want to improve our standard of living someday.
That's all very normal, but some of us can never seem to get enough. Students examine the implications of greed on
themselves and society and consider gratitude as an antidote to greed.
Key Ideas: Overcoming greed - Gratitude as an antidote to greed
Character Traits: Respect - Responsibility - Prudence
Power to Change
Making changes in behavior or breaking a habit is never easy. However, there are people who can
help us change for the better, because sometimes we need someone else to come along beside us and show us the way.
In the end, though, we have to be the ones to make the changes ourselves.
Key Idea: We each have within us the power to change for the better.
Character Traits: Self-respect - Responsibility
You are never too young to learn to save money for the rainy days of life. Life is unpredictable
and we never know when we will be faced with a challenge that requires some money to resolve. Students explore the
benefits of making a lifelong habit of saving money.
Key Ideas: The importance of saving money - Financial literacy - Personal financial education
Character Traits: Responsibility - Trustworthiness
The Road Ahead
Every day we make choices, and every choice comes with a consequence. A wise person strives to make good decisions,
decisions that will reap the best outcomes. A stubborn or unaware person will continually make unwise choices, and in the process,
he or she will live a life less fortunate than that of the wiser one.
Key Ideas: Choices - Consequences - Doing your best
Character Traits: Responsibility - Wisdom - Self-discipline
Strength of Habit
Aristotle once said "The habits we form from childhood make no small difference,
but rather make all the difference." Students explore the idea that it is easier to form positive habits now than
to break bad habits, and that our habits shape our character and our character determines the outcome of our lives.
Key Ideas: Creating good habits - Habits help form our character
Character Traits: Self-respect - Self-responsibility - Citizenship
Note: This message and lesson plan also work well for the beginning of the school year.
* Dr. King faced many difficult decisions in his life. With these materials, students
have an opportunity to reflect on the fact that each of us faces many decisions each day. Some may be very difficult,
but whatever the situation, we can learn from Dr. King's example by using these opportunities to do the right thing.
Key Ideas: The time is always right to do what is right.
Character Traits: Moral courage - Integrity - Honesty - Fairness - Tolerance
Note: This message and lesson plan also work well for Dr. King's birthday or for Black History Month.
Sometimes on the path of life we are faced with a fork in the road. Deciding which
way to go can be challenging particularly when we want to make the right choice. Students will consider the notion
that just because everyone else is choosing a well-beaten path does not mean it's the right way to go.
Key Idea: The well-beaten path isn't always the right path to take.
Character Traits: Prudence - Good judgment - Moral courage - Self-respect
What Kind of Person Do I Want To Be?
Its important for all of us, adults and young people alike,
to take time to reflect on the principles that will guide our lives and to make a conscious choice as to what kind
of person we are going to be. Life can be difficult to navigate. Choosing our principles first can help make the journey
easier and more rewarding.
Key Ideas: Character - Choices - Reflection
Character Traits: Respect - Responsibility - Honesty
Note: This message and lesson plan also work well for Character Counts Week.
When I Do Good I Feel Good
* Students look at the connection between doing good and feeling good, doing
bad and feeling bad. This is a great opportunity to discuss the importance of personal rules of conduct.
Key Ideas: Rules of conduct - Ethical behavior - Doing what's right - Self-esteem
Character Traits: Respect - Responsibility - Caring - Integrity - Citizenship
Note: This message and lesson plan also work well for Ethics Awareness Month.
The Words We Speak
Students stop to consider that the words we choose to speak are a reflection of
who we are. Either words earn the respect of others, or they can cost us respect when others hear our bad language.
Key Ideas: Words can hurt or help
Character Traits: Respect - Self-control - Empathy
You're Not the Boss of Me
One of the hardest things about being a kid is having to bite your tongue when you
want to say, "Hey, you're not the boss of me!" But the truth is, until you learn how to "boss yourself,"
somebody has to do the job or you might be making some truly unwise decisions.
Key Ideas: Choices - Independence - Self-management
Character Traits: Respect - Responsibility
* Materials with an asterisk (*) relate to Responsible Decision-Making
and are also related to a calendar event. These same materials can also
be found under Calendar Events.
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